Why Women Test Men They Are Dating!
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Why Women Test Men They Are Dating!
Without a doubt, whether you're dating online or offline, you've been and continue to be put to the test by women.
Why? That's a long answer, and I've stopped physcoanalyzing women for a long time. Even ladies will agree that they are unable to comprehend themselves! So, what hope do you have as humble males?
Zip! None! Zilch!
So it's best to just accept that they will put men to the test. When it happens, be aware of it and deal with it in a way that gives men authority and understanding in the relationship. Here are some examples of how women put men to the test.
What is the purpose of the testing?
1. They put guys to the test to discover how emotionally strong we are.
2. They put men to the test to discover how brilliant they are.
3. They put men to the test because they seek out drama in their lives.
4. Some people test because it's fun to make males uncomfortable.
5. They put folks to the test because they can. :-]
The tests that follow are from the types of women you don't want to get involved with. So be careful of these women and try to avoid them.
Let's have a look at the tests.
1) The age-old test of obscenely flirting with another man in front of you.
2) The traditional "yelling at you for looking at another female to see what you're like" test.
3) The dreaded 'canceling a date at the last minute for no apparent reason' test.
4) The most heinous of them all: the "getting you incredibly turned on while making out and then saying no to see if you really respect me" test.
[This one is the most deceptive and wrong]
There are many more tests, but for the purposes of this article, this is sufficient. Now let's look at strategies to RESPOND rather than REACT to these pesky little tests.
1) The age-old test of obscenely flirting with another man in front of you.
a. With a woman I'd been in love with for a long time, this was a particularly difficult one to bear. I assumed she'd grow out of it. She didn't, however. I learned to ignore her when this happened and instead enjoy my evening by speaking with other women or her friends. The best thing you can do is not bring it up or make a big issue about it. If at all feasible, strike up a discussion with her attractive friends or other women in the venue. If this doesn't work, you may have an inappropriate partner who will flirt with you every time you go out. Because you can only change yourself and your feelings, it's improbable that she'll break this behavior. Ignore her flirting and enjoy your night. You should avoid her if she is continuously flirting with you; she is trouble.
2) The traditional "yelling at you for looking at another female to see what you're like" test.
a. To begin, try to avoid looking at other girls while she is present. This provides you credibility and a distinct style. If she loses it for no apparent reason, she is probably insecure and searching for drama. Instead of yelling at her, encourage her to calm down. With a smile on your face, tell her you'll spank her when you come home if she doesn't behave. This should alleviate the situation by eliciting a laugh, and she might just want to spank you! :-]
3) The dreaded 'canceling a date at the last minute for no apparent reason' test.
a. Isn't this very disappointing? You're ready to walk out the door when she sends you a Canceling text message. Mentioning that one of the worst things women can do is not show up and cancel dates is the most efficient method to avoid this is the most effective approach to avoid this. When you indicate this when scheduling a meeting, it helps to prevent it from occurring. We're all busy, and in order to be effective, we need to prepare ahead. However, don't dismiss her because there's a good chance she has a valid reason for it. She won't put up with that if it happens twice in a row!
4) The most heinous of them all: the "getting you incredibly turned on while making out and then saying no to see if you really respect me" test.
The most difficult of them all. It's best to take a step back and remain cool. Don't sulk or try to force it. Simply unwind and have a little fun. If you remain calm and she notices that you are not stressed, she will most likely relax, and you will have passed the test. Then start making out again slowly.
By remaining cool and playful, you've probably demonstrated that you respect her.
That is all there is to it. Life will put you to the test; how you respond to it will determine your success.
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