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Your Sexual Past – Does it Bother Your Boyfriend?

Another guy having been with you (whether for sex or just hooking up) is the last thing your lover wants to think about. He can actually go insane imagining some other guy getting down with you.

Have you had a tumultuous sexual history laced with a lot of experience? If that's the case, your lover might have a hard time dealing with it. But he has no choice but to accept it.

Don't let someone else bring your history up in front of you or use it against you. Let it stay there if it's ancient history (or only a few months ago), and move on.

He has to accept you for who you are.

If he chooses to be with you, he must accept you for who you truly are. And that is extremely important. Of course, this doesn't mean he has to approve of your sexual history, but it does imply he can't hold it against you. It's extremely unjust for him to want to date you and then start tearing apart your background.

If he keeps bringing up your past, it's time to leave. Tell him up front that if he wants to date you, he'll have to accept everything about you. Inform him that he has two options:

a) You and your partner split up.

b) You and your partner stay together...

But he's not allowed to bring up your sexual history again. Never. Not even when you and your partner are fighting.

Move on after learning from your mistakes. The brief pleasures of sex and hooking up might have long-term consequences for your reputation and self-esteem. You're doing the right thing if you've decided to change your "free loving" habits, and that's what matters most. On the other hand, if you've only had a few hookups and your man is making a big deal out of it, you might want to reconsider dating such a conservative person.

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